learning to deal with things...
Hello everyone! I am having an issue and I hope you all can help me. It is day 6 for me and so far things have been interesting. So far I was feeling great after the first 2 days then things just got not as great as I would have liked. I have been searching for a new apartment because I am not happy in the situation I am in and I really need to move closer to the city to help me grow my business etc. Where I am living is not the right location for me. So last week I asked to find a beautiful apartment that was perfect for me. And low and behold I did. Perfect!! I could fit my piano in it. It was above ground perfect size great location. Just great so I put in an application for it. And after alot of weighting I heard back 2 days ago that the place was mine! Yay I was so excited I gave my notice at the current place im living in got boxes to start packing and started to set up advertising in that area so I could get my business a moving along. We set up a time for us to meet sign the paper work and hand over my deposit. So this morning I woke up all eager to get things moving and the landlady phoned to change the appointment I said thats ok when would you like to change it too. She said that she was not sure and would call me back in a few hours. After not hearing from her all day she finally phoned at about 5:30 at night to tell me that she rented the apartment! Yes thats right she rented the apartment out to someone other than me after she had already promised it to me! So I was quite up set as I had already given notice and got things rolling. I am wondering what I did in my thoughts to change this? I know that there is obviously something out there that will be better for me and my business but I am really struggling to stay positive and look at the big picture when i really wanted this place. I feel like such a baby about the whole situation but I really feel like she was prejudice toward me because I am a musician and her son couldnt make a living as a musician. I am however not her son and I am making a living as one quite a good living actually. How can I help my feelings? Someone please help not sure what to do.
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Permalink Reply by Julie Freeman on -
Hi Heather, Just keep focused and positive, refuse to give into any negative thoughts on this. There is something better for you that was meant to be and not this apartment. The landlady could be doing you a real favour and you just dont know it yet.
lilou has a great "you tube" video on her page about intentions? If you havent seen it go onto it its really great and helpful and put that intention out there for the right apartment.
I have a similar story with where we are staying at present and I'm really trying to stay focused on the positive knowing that the answer will come when I allow it so I understand how you feel, your not alone on this one.
looking forward to hearing about your new place real soon.
Julie
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Permalink Reply by Jilly on -
Wow Heather...after reading this entire story...I am so excited that you didnt get the apartment. Yes I am excited that you will not be renting from someone that is prejudice. I am excited that you are not renting from a women that would do such a dis-service to another human being. I am excited that you wont have to listen to another word from that lady about her failure of a son... and I am excited that the Universe will never let that lady hurt your feelings again, and most of all I am so excited you didnt sign and didnt have the deposit available and there was a delay. I am reading between the lines now...I am so excited that the right apartment is on the way. I am so excited that the time is near since you have already given notice. I am excited that you have narrowed it down to the correct area you can progress in your music business. You kinda answered your own question. YOU know what to do. Keep looking because the area was a fit and everything else is in motion so go find that apartment. Its waiting for you. This time be ready to sign the papers and have the deposit in hand. Repeat after me...I am going to find the perfect apartment for me with a wonderful landlord and the perfect rent that I can afford in the most perfect location for me to conduct my music business.
Best wishes to you my friend and co-creator...JILLY
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Permalink Reply by Aleksandra on -
Nice comment Jilly, that is exactly how we should feel about all those 'failures'!
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Permalink Reply by valer on -
Woaw! I'll be real upset too! It's ok to be... We do have to reconize our feelings and deal with it. Just don't let it ruin your search! Believe! If it did not happened, it wasn't meant to be... She could have been an awful land lady and you don't know and honestly for what she did, you just don't want to deal with people like that!
I searched for so long for a plave to live with a new baby, a dog (the wrong kind!: pitbull even if she is so sweet) in San Francisco at the time that the economy was going down. I have seen so many that i could not afford $1600 for a studio here in SF! That was just insane! I was deseperate, so I made it work my way, first i put my dog as a service dog (dont have to tell that i have a dog) I did not talk about the baby (what a shame!) and things were opening more, suddenly from mouth to hear I did found the perfect place that i can afford a 2 bedrooms!!
Well all that to tell you that may be dont tell them that you play music at home, that you own a piano... You'll find the perfect place! Don't let it affect your self! vizualize! Make a list of what you want and don't want in that place (a good nice landlord is important!) Dont forget to be grateful for your present place just says that you are ready to leave now...
I am originally French and my English is not that great sorry !! lol. Hope that helps a little.. don't worry!
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Permalink Reply by Heather on -
So the land lady called and re offered the place to me. I told her no because I dont want to have a landlady that I am not sure I can depend on. My friend called yesterday to let me know that her basement suite has come available. It is huge! However it needs a bit of work. So im reluctant I have now asked for guidance to let me know what I should do. I think it feels right as i cant stop thinking about how Im going to decorate it! Please let me know your thoughts! Thanks for all the wonderful posts everyone has made me really happy and keeping positive. It is truely wonderful to have a community where everyone supports each other and gives guidance! So thank you for that as well. I look forward to your posts.
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