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Think You Know The Law of Attraction? - Think Again...

Do you remember that first spark of hope you felt when you watched The Secret? I clearly remember the desire that filled my heart, knowing that – Yes, I can make my dreams come true – Finally!

But how many of you soon saw that hope dwindle into frustration? How many of you (and be honest now) started muttering things like:

"It seems to work for other people, but I just can’t get it right."
"I’m frustrated that sometimes I can get it to work, but sometimes I can’t."

"Why am I having so much trouble?"
"I think the universe is against me."
"I’m trying very, VERY hard but still nothing is happening!"
Don’t worry, you’re not alone...

Don't Fall Into The Trap of Instant Gratification

About 97% of people also couldn’t make the Law of Attraction work for them the first time round. Think about it, just like anything else, you have to practice many times before you see success. A child doesn’t learn to walk without falling over a couple of times, right?

But in practice, everything is easier said and done...

When you’re frustrated, it’s hard to stay positive. And it’s especially harder to stay positive when the evidence all around you is screams negativity like the unstable economy. And do you know what happens when you fail to stay positive?

That’s right – you start attracting negative things in to your life.

So how can you make the Law of Attraction work for you – without getting frustrated? How do those who successfully implement the Law of Attraction do it with such confidence and finesse?

Well, here’s three quick tips so you will never feel frustrated or tired of begging from the universe, because you know how to start manifesting like a pro.

1. Allow Yourself To Receive

Just like a lost child who approaches a police officer and asks, “Excuse me Sir, can you tell me how to go to the post office? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you?” Well, if the child goes on and on asking, the police officer can’t even give an answer, right?

Well, it’s the same thing with your mind. If the only thing your mind is doing is transmit, transmit, transmit, the universe — which is trying to respond — can’t give you a single thing because you’re not allowing yourself to receive!

So, have the confidence in yourself and stop exhausting yourself by running around person to person begging for riches, and then wondering why nobody is dropping a penny in your cup (Hint: It’s because you’re running away too fast for them before they can even reach for their wallets).

Just think of your desires and leave it out there, go away, and trust that your cup will be filled with gold coins (or whatever it is you asked for) when the time is right.

2. Be Patient With Yourself

Receiving takes time...

Sadly, many people give up just a couple of steps before the finish line because they’ve decided that if it’s not working by now, it’s never going to work at all. Worse still are those who throw in more and more energy because they think that with more resources, the results will come faster.

This is like expecting 9 mothers to conceive and deliver a baby in 1 month. You also can’t bake cookies in half the time by doubling the temperature. You’ll incinerate those cookies to ashes!

In simple terms: Everything in this world has a natural development time, and this fact will not change no matter what resources you throw at it.

So relax and be patient. Remember that you too, as part of the universe, are also governed by the laws of the universe, and you cannot change the natural development time.

If you remember this, you will less likely work yourself up into frustration, or worse, push yourself into a downward spiral of negativity.

3. Support and Educate Yourself

Like the child who is learning how to walk, you need support. You also need to guidance on how to do it, and also the role models to look up to.

Many people give up because they think that “The Secret” is the “be all and end all” solution. Well, it’s NOT. “The Secret” is just a small portion. It was never intended, and has never been, the whole answer.

Coming to the conclusion that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work when all you ever did to educate yourself was watch “The Secret” 19 times (without looking at changing the habits of other areas of your life) is like coming to the conclusion that exercising is not an effective way to lose weight because all you did is run on the treadmill for 2 hours a day (but you’re still stuffing yourself with fried foods and cheesecakes).

So seek and be hungry for new knowledge. Also, make an effort to be amongst people or communities where you can support each other, learn from each other and also share new knowledge that you have found.

While the Law of Attraction is not an overnight delivery service, it will indeed deliver, if you do your part too!

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The LOA goes hand in hand with Law of Allowing and Law of Deliberate Creation. Esther Hick via Abraham, talks of many tools and processes to "get your stuff"
well said
This is really helpful encouragement - thankyou - the message being perseverance
I came back to this again...all day at work..I stood ready to receive..I listened as my customers said "yes, I'll take it". As co=workers split deals with me. Worked out fine.
A really excellent summary! Thank you - just wanted I needed to hear!
LOA really works, no doubt. Just 2 examples:

2 weeks ago I lied to someone, who was waiting for my Email. I told him, that my internet connection is broken and... some hours later my connection was really broken, for a whole week.

I focused all my energy to win the lottery, because I need money (like most of us). I played and played and nothing really happend. Last Saturday I ditn't play, because I was so mad, that LOA didn't work... and there are 5 numbers I allways play. That's 4000-5000 bugs, that slipped through my fingers.

But I'm not that much upset, because it shows me, that LOA really works !!

Be patient, but always keep you senses focused. And like in "The Secret" video: The Universe likes speed, act when it's your time. Don't delay, no second gas. And do not ever lie. That's what I've learned.

Regards and Blessings
hi.. just wanted to say i agree and i disagree. I agree that loa works. its working great for me. and i disagree about the lying part. U lied about the wrong thing buddy. I lie all the time and they come true. I use my discretion of course about who im lying to. I lie about small things to sway my life forward. once i lied saying that i got something and 2 hours later i got that thing i wanted. sometimes when random strangers ask me- do u live in an apartment or a house (i love that question by the way, because it gives me a chance to affirm)- i say i live in a house. but i say to those who are never going to come to my apartment. LOL... Once i told a guy about my fabulous trip to paris... and then about how disciplined I am , how i drink 2 litres of water every day , how i have enough money.. try it.. you will be surprised. but you have to be a con like it like a pro and even the universe will be dumbfounded...LOL jokes aside.. i am works.. Abraham says tell the story you want to tell..

in the spirit of this message let me lie to you some more..if I may :) Today was such a fantastic day. The weather was nice and warm... I woke up in the morning feeling refreshed and energetic ... had my cup of white tea with honey that i love so much. I had breakfast of boiled egg and spinach salad...& then I put on my Guess jeans and took my Versace bag and went on to my work. Feeling fabulous. I had great conversations with people in the day... and my day just breezed past so well....Later in the afternoon I took out my red porsche from my garage and went for a ride with my dog....I know she loves that makes her feel sexy too....And she especially loves the red leather interior. Then, we came back home and my boyfriend was waiting at home for me looking stunning as usual....He had made sushi at home .. and i love eating sushi....and he is really good at making sushi....we enjoyed a fabulous dinner of sushi and saki and had sex for 3 hours....and then we went salsa dancing and drinking with friends....We later talked about going shopping this weekend and going to Tokyo during christmas.

Did you like that? :)
hahaha I am laughing so much right now. I do this too!! and why not, it gives me great joy. I even lie to myself at the end of the day when I think about what I did that day. the other day I had a writing session with a famous songwriter. yesterday I wrote a check for my $8000 rent while my house is being built. tomorrow I am going to deposit thousands more in my bank account. it soooo works!! and it's so much fun. I really love being a liar :)
thank you for the reminder! It is easy to get caught up in the instant gratification stuff!
this is very apt to my feelings of the last week, however, i have always struggled with the leave it alone concept . one of the things i read or heard was in mental workings it is the harder you dont try the quicker it manifests, and i agree, but most of the teachings from wattles to the secret talk about , thinking about it, focusing all the time, this seems a contradiction, leave it alone , or as wattles puts it use all your free and social time thinking about it, so which is it ? can anyone help please ?

thank you
I agree with you too. Leave it alone or focus on desire? I think the happy medium I am working with is meditating myself doing what I want 15 minutes a day. I also have my vision board in a place where I can glance at it when I go by. I think doing those things as a part of my daily routine and not fretting about when it will manifest and forcing it to come is helpful for me. For example; I am looking for work and I have specific requirements money, and I want the biggest bang for my buck so to speak. I have been offered a few jobs lately that definitely did not meet my needs so I told the person I got another job offer instead of just turning that one down. I knew I would get the job I wanted and I felt by saying I already got that job it would come easier. Another thing I do is I changed my affirmation from I am attract.... to I am or I have... like I already have what I want and I am afffirming that. I also listen to Bashar if that helps. I don't know wattles... I will check him out. I think listening to those whom we resonatewith is the way to go. There are some speakers and teachers whom I "click" with and there are others I don't. Have you heard of Mike Dooey? namaste, Inge
ok this is what i have to say. use common sense. if you want your house to look absolutely clean, its not going to happen until you clean it yourself or get a maid to do it. the non-physical stuff won't move by itself . so 1st identify your goal. then ask if it can happen if you do nothing- meaning no physical action? there can be 3 kinds of goals- 1st is the one where you have to take action like cleaning the house, 2nd the opposite say you already applied for the job and now its not in your control. so then forget about it. the 3rd kind is one that involves both. in that i would say meditate and do creative visualisation to see what is the smartest way to get it. then do some action- may be daily 1 hour or 2 hours in one week, whatever is appropriate and leave it alone rest of the time. its like growing a plant. you have to water it may be once a day or once a week, depending on the plant but you dont need to sit next to it and stalk it for 24 hours. hope this clarifies.



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