RE: you said " There are some things we can influence and some we cannot"...
WRONG. You can influence all not just some, however it is your choice.
RE: you said "How much percent are you responsible"
You are 100% responsible for your own reality.
RE: you said "(to a certain extent)...
WRONG...we are not creators to a certain extent. Plain and simple WE ARE CREATORS to all extent. We create everyone in our lives.
RE: you said"if you meet a murderer"
You didnt create the murder or his action. You just created MEETING HIM. As for war, we all create it as a collective. AS for Soulmate, I dont believe there is any such thing as a soulmate.
RE: " You said why do we like Mr. X but not Mr Y?"
I believe it is an illusion, you like both and should be loving both with unconditional love.Dont forget who ever you bring into your life is your created reality, so both Mr x and Mr y was what you created.
Again My opinion...Love Jilly