Dreaming My Life Awake!

Hi Melanie, thanks so much for you good wishes. I'm much more active on fb as well. I've also added these videos on a YT channel my friend, Wiehaur and I created called "NSPIREnow". We created it with the intention of pple sharing their thoughts, comments, and feedback about their own experience, so we would LOVE to hear from you and about your life :-). Thanks again and I hope all is well with you :)

Eternal love and light,
David

Aya, it is me. You are quick! I was organizing all my e-mail and came across your invite, although I still don't know much about this site. But wow, its really cool to see you if only in photos and text and the like.

May everywhere you look today be filled with beauty, and may you radiate that beauty to everyone you see.

David

BTW, how are your intentions going?

There is only one "you", and I am thankful you are my friend!
D

Hey Melanie,

I HAVE to share this with you and everyone else who reads this thread. I was single for years. I preferred to be single than be miserable with the wrong type of guy. Problem was, I was always meeting the wrong type of guy...mostly they were nice, but no spark. And not the light behind the eyes I was looking for. Okay so I turned 28 years old (I am now 36) and I was ready to start thinking about marriage. Or at least date someone for a couple of years then take our time and get married. 1 year went by, then 2... So I hit 30. I though wait, I am just telling the universe I am ready but staying home all the time. My boss at the time (also a dating woman) said "I have had much success with this dating website (Lavalife.com) and we are getting serious." At that moment I scuffed it off politely thinking it was not form me. The next day I said what the heck I will try it. So I dated on and off for a 1 1/2 years, met interesting people some I dated for about 6 months, but they had commitment issues. I was so discouraged. A year and a half on this website and still no one , what is wrong with me I thought! Another woman I worked with identifed with me and told me how she met her hubby also in her thirties. She said she had a list of points (characteristics) that she reviewed morning and night each day, and 6 months later she met her great man! So I figured what the heck, maybe this is what the Universe whats my to try. I fill 13 items on looseleaf and taped it to my wall and reviewed each morning and night, 3 times out loud. No kidding, I met my guy on the same dating website 3 WEEKS later, I moved in with him 9 months later (never lived with a guy before this) and he proposed 11 months from the day we met. We have been married for almost 3.5 years and are happy. Mel, he met 12 of the 13 point AND is working on the 13th! OMG! My boss also married the man I mentioned who met in online. For me the key was the willingness to reject the ones who did not meet my 'list' points. What was on that list things like - he loves his job, -he fights fair, -he is forgiving after arguments, - he is kind to all his friends and family, - he is ready for a family and has the means to support us,... Oh and Melanie, it was HIM who encouraged me to go back to school and pursue my dreams when I and long given up on the. Oh yeah make a list babe!

Hey Melanie,
Thanks for adding me as a friend. I am rooting for ya cuz I am in school, and applying for tough-to-get-into programs. I have suspended practice in the 100 day challenge formally, but I still do what I can to co-create my reality. I noticed you haven not managed to video blog in a while. I just wanted to lend you some in incouragement in sticking to the program (which I am sure you are!) but we all need a boost and being a fellow student with crazy hours (plus I have a small child), I do understand how easy it is to get tied up with so many other things. Saw the blog about your battaries needing to be recharged - LOL - oh yeah I get what you mean!

Take good care my dear and chin up! You are doing great!

Liana

Hey melanie,
Way cool about being in school in your 30'S, I am in the same boat, using the 100 day challenge to be accepted into my grad school and program of choice.