The 100 Day Reality Challenge

  • 58, Female
  • Fresno, Ca
  • United States

Pamela's Friends

  • Travis
  • Mariana
  • Christian Carnegie
  • nara
  • Candice
  • Lorretta Lawrence
  • Jonathan David Goins
  • Sweetmotion
  • Amorette
  • IsisOakmoss
  • Jason
  • Mike Ludens
  • Minnehaha
  • Darae
  • Kimberly Canty


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About Me:
About Me:

I am a strong, intelligent beautiful black woman. I am fun to be around, and my smile can brightened up a dull room. I have confidence, and high self-esteem. Oh yes I feel good about me!

I have a man who loves and adores me. I am secure in my relationship. I have 3 boys and 1 girl (in that order) and 2 grandbabies, that just light up my entire world.

I love life, I love the earth and all that it encompasses, the moon and the stars, I love the ocean and the sand. I love sunlight and singing in the rain. I love shopping for as much as I can grab. I love to eat lobster, shrimp and crab.

The more love I give, the more love I am destined to receive. Most say I wear my heart on my sleeve, but don't doubt that if necessary I will ask you to leave.

My positive energy is electric, and my mind is so divine, everyday I thank God for my life and all is fine.

Season 1
Starting Date:
October 1, 2008
Intentions & Goals:
My intention is to generate 3 - 5K a month in income, that money will be used to help sustain and maintain our family and household living expenses.

My intention is to build my team by 4 each month, doing so will help me reach my goal of becoming RVP by May 2009.

My intention is to donate 25K to KIVA members, I want to help 50 members a year by donating $500 to each organization. To me this is a worthy cause as it helps people in countries less fortunate than ours, to achieve their dreams, microlending is a vehicle for these people to have the opportunity to change the legacy of their families and I think that is AWESOME - I am thankful to be a part of it.

My intention is to establish self-esteem workshops across the country mainly in the inner cities, that will teach our youth to love and respect themselves, I want to show them that there are other ways to be successful in this world, that the universe will provide for those who ask and believe, it is my intent to start a crusade especially for young girls, (that aspire to dance in these videos half naked and disgraced), will come to realize that as they grow up and start to have families of their own, that this is not how they want their children to know them, I want to show them that they can do things with integrity, have class and most of all, respect and love themselves the nth degree, so that they don't have to settle, show them that they can live their dreams, just basically push them to be the best they can be.

My intention is to help families devise a plan to get and keep them on track of their financial futures. This includes being properly protected, debt free and financially independent. This is the vehicle by which I now create the life I desire.

My intention is to be the go to person in my family, this means taking care of college for my granchildren, travel around the world, I want them to experience life in the fullest form, I teach them now that they can dream and have any and everything they desire, I encourage their imagination, making sure they dream big, the unimaginable is all within their reach, I want to show them that if grandma can do it -- they can do it to.
Vision Board, Journalography (Video Journal), Blogging, Journaling, Gratitude Journal, Reading, Fitness, Meditation, Affirmations, Creating intentions, Masterminding
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I agree to like myself. Next, I agree the approval, acceptance, and love I want begins with me. I agree to treat myself with kindness, respect, and love without limits regardless of anyone else's opinion about who I am or what I should do. I have goals I want to achieve both in myself and out in the world. Without question, I want to improve in the days to come, but in all the moments that have passed I accept I have done my best.

Things to ponder:
1. At least two people in this world love you so much they would die for you.
2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.
3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.
4. Every night, someone thinks about you before going to sleep.
5. You mean the world to someone.
6. If not for you, someone may not be living.
7. You are special and unique.
8. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still come from it.
9. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look. You most likely turned your back on the world.
10. Someone you don't even know exists loves you.
11. Always remember the compliments you receive. Forget about rude remarks.
12. Always tell people how you feel about them. You will feel much better when they know, and you'll both be happy.
13. If you have great friends, take time to let them know that they are great.

Pamela's Blog


Posted on December 25, 2008 at 12:47am 0 Comments

Hello Co Creators

This is a time for reflection for all of us, take a look back at the last year, what happened that you are grateful for, what did you accomplish, what are your plans or goals for the new year.

As I sit and reflect on the last year, I am most grateful for my life, both good and bad. I realize that my thoughts have placed me where I am today and I also realize that my thoughts will take me where I want to be.

Yes, I have had and will have bad… Continue


Posted on December 20, 2008 at 7:20pm 0 Comments

Well I started my challenge Oct 1, 2008, however shortly before starting this challenge one of my goals was to lose a total of 40lbs, well I am happy to say that I am down 25lbs so far and I see no reason why I can't continue and reach my ultimate goal.

I finally realized that small steps really do add up to huge victories, what I have done is change how I eat, not so much what I eat, for example, portion control is vital, it allows me to eat what I want in moderation, therefore I… Continue

Whew, it's been a while (Time to reflect)

Posted on November 29, 2008 at 7:32pm 0 Comments

Hello CoCreators

It's really been a while since my last blog, however you all and this site has been ever present on my mind, first let me say this journey I am on is such a wonderful learning experience for me, I have not read so much, and been so fascinated and intrigued by all that I have and will read, that my mind feels like a gi-normous sponge just soaking up all this knowledge, that I now realize was in me all the time. The joy I am experiencing is in exploring and finding out… Continue

Things To Ponder.

Posted on October 31, 2008 at 1:35pm 2 Comments

I have this on my page and it makes me think about these things on a higher level, IsisOakmoss stopped by my page and suggested that I share these thoughts with the group, and I thought, you know she is right! Why not share this with all of the CCOR community via blog, so here it is.

Let me just say these are not my words I copied them from something I read, but when I read thru this list I think of the people who fit the answer and it overwhelms me, because it is so true when you… Continue

What you think about, You are about!!!

Posted on October 30, 2008 at 5:26pm 4 Comments

I've been thinking, and I mean really thinking, of all the stuff I read, or see, or listen to regarding the law of attraction, the common demoninator is simply this "our thoughts become our reality".

Wow! once you realize this, you must then learn how to apply what you learned to your daily life, with that in mind, I have really started to notice how much I am paying attention to my thoughts.

I am finding that if a negative or worrisome thought flashes in my mind or… Continue

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At 11:03am on July 7, 2010, Tata said…
Hi my dear,whats up? how are you doing?

At 9:22pm on April 21, 2010, Kay said…
Happy Birthday to you Pamela!!!

I hope you have a day filled with fun & manifestions. :o) xxx
At 8:41pm on February 11, 2010, Christian Carnegie said…

Hehe, hi. Hope all is going well with you and you're enjoying this AMAZING roller coaster ride.

~ Christian :]
At 11:18am on January 21, 2009, Lydie said…

Much love sister .. miss ya! Life is funny eh.. always so busy ;)
Have a blessed day baby!
At 4:50am on January 16, 2009, PJ said…
Hi Pamela,

Thank-you for the advice you left me recently. It really holds true and makes so much sense. Sometimes you are so involved in a situation, its hard to take a step back and look at it objectively. You have a really honest perspective and I'm so grateful you left me some words of wisdom. Thanks again - PJ
At 3:35pm on January 15, 2009, Elisa said…
Hi Pamela:

Thanks for your wishes and good vibes in my birthday. Have a great day!
Your page is wonderful.
At 5:44pm on January 13, 2009, Travis said…
You are welcome!!! I'm glad the blog has helped!!! When you have some time, share with me what lights were turned on. Looking forward to hearing from you!!
At 5:55pm on January 8, 2009, Delicia said…
Merry Meet! What a wonderful page! Thank you for your comment on my blog and for sharing these lovely thoughts. You've made me smile.

At 1:54am on January 1, 2009, Cherie said…
Happy New Year!
At 7:38pm on December 26, 2008, Yvette Marie said…
Hey Pamela, Happy Holidays, prosperous wishes for you and yours.:-)

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