He says until he can get the money to leave, he doesn't have anywhere else to go and he needs time to get something else. Honestly, I believe he is trying to guilt me or trap me or make his issue my problem. I don't want to be cold toward him, but I honestly don't think he understands when I am being diplomatic or kind or thoughtful - I think he takes advantage of me. His staying here is his way of using his name being on the lease to his advantage and it really has nothing to do with…Continue
I decided to get clear with my new baby's dad today.
We worked on a relationship for over a year and at this point my emotions were so confused with him I decided it was a good time to ask him outright where we stand. He said he considers us (my children and me) his family and that he loves the kids but as far as a relationship with me goes, he doesn't know. He said he prides himself in providing clear answers, but for that he just didn't have one. I told him then the obvious…
I was reading my blog posts on here and WOW I was going through so much. No wonder I didn't want to continue on in the 100 Day Challenge! I had so much self work I needed to do.
I am open and willing and accepting of whatever comes my way from whomever it may come from. I need that in my life.