The 100 Day Reality Challenge

So after I posted yesterday things went a bit south!? I guess that's the best way to put it.

My best friend Noelle, is a very sweet girl but yesterday my goodness everything was being flung in her general direction. A project she was working on never seemed to work right. The lead and our assistant manager said some nasty things about her as she walked in so she got to overhear what I hope was the worst of the conversation. My journey here as afforded me the ability to look past things like that and ignore the suffering of others that is targeted or aimed at me.

But honestly had no idea what to say to her yesterday. I tried to tell her not to take it personally and assume that what they were saying was bad. (although it was bad and I could see that she was practically on the verge of tears) I just wish I could have stuck all of my knowledge into her head at that moment and tell her that truly all the bullshit she was attracting or was aimed at her because she was "an easy mark" was insignificant.

It broke my heart to see her in that kind of pain. I have to say because I'm been working on me so much lately (basically for the last 49 days) I've been in a bit of a bubble. And because I focus on attracting what I want and getting more and more of that I barely ever seem to notice everyone else's suffering around me. Yesterday for some reason the universe made me look around a little. Not sure what it all means yet but I'm sure they'll stick me in front of a neon sign of sorts and let me know.

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Comment by Lori on June 14, 2010 at 5:05pm
I think it's all about contrast. Maybe this incident is just meant to show you how far you have come! Maybe you have started to slip into the drama of things and you are conscious of that and so you can more easily step out of the drama (if that makes sense). I think it's wonderful that you are living in a bubble! You are a great example. I think it's time for me to step into the bubble and really work on myself.
Comment by Natalie on June 13, 2010 at 10:55pm
Yeah I really don't want to solicit something I'm still figuring out for sure. Maybe after I'm done with my first season I'll be a bit more confident but for now... I'm just rolling with the punches.
Comment by Love Life on June 13, 2010 at 10:33pm
You are truly a caring friend to Noelle, and sometimes all you can do is be there for her....listen & be supportive.
Perhaps the Universe made you experience this to recognize that you can't always be thinking about working on yourself, but helping others work on themselves too? Maybe the Universe knows that you can be a wonderful teacher to Noelle with subjects of positive thinking, and the philosophies of The Secret. Maybe it is your chance to help her change her life around.....


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