it's such a cliche' but it is The Way. just let it all go...all the striving, and trying and effort and work and figuring and planning and forcing and controlling and worrying and fretting and complaining and focusing on what's missing and what we 'want' - that's what we get more of.
let go and let god do it effortlessly, easily, with grace and trust and faith and belief and positive expectation and value for ourselves and knowing miracles are real, make wishes and dreams and trust. it's limitless, we can't even imagine the possibilities and abundance that's available to us - this universe is incredible!!
just stay open, a witness and let go.