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Morning drama & afternoon serenity - D11S9

This morning was something else. My mother got a Facebook account and proceeded to terrorize my sisters by calling my 18 year old sister (the victim) a liar, and trying to corner her with questions about going to the hospital and all this craziness.

It started at about 9:30 am and lasted into the afternoon, about 12 pm.

I was shocked at the extent of her immaturity. :( She was trying to get my younger brother to take my sister out "to the movies" without my permission, and he called me to talk to her, and I told him that I wasn't comfortable with that. He had a lot of nerve doing that. He is on probation, his license is suspended, he is completely unreliable even when it comes to getting to school or work himself - which is why he didn't go to school for the whole summer, and why he hasn't been able to hold down a job.

It turns out my mom is trying to find anyone that she can for Bakkah to live with outside of me - but guess what? She didn't show up to the probate hearing, and I have full guardianship. She cannot change that. She's also trying to wrap my younger brother's ignorant girlfriend up in the mix. She loves drama. My brother met her by cheating on his ex-girlfriend and is staying in that relationship because he cannot live anywhere else on his own. It is just ridiculous. She's getting state assistance with no kids, a job, and a vehicle, when it is only her and my brother living together. They are between the ages of 24 and 26 years old. Shameful. But they are supposed to be fit enough to take care of a 16 year old girl who has severe educational set backs and is working on her independence? Wow.

Anyway, after that situation died down and my mom stopped contacting the girls (she wouldn't talk to me, of course), I was able to move on to some more thrilling information. I called one of the land lords for one of the properties that I found, and the house sounds so perfect. It will be ready right around the time I need it to be to move out of here, and has 4 bedrooms, a full finished basement and garage, and a hot tub! I couldn't believe it. Right in our price range also. I told him I would call him once per week to check on its progress to see when I can take a look at the inside.

I also got a chance to talk to my sweetie last night. All of my issues were resolved, as he had the same issues. We laid everything out on the table and resolved everything lol. So great! So now we are really, truly, in a relationship and I am really, truly, happy with my decision. It was funny because during the moment where I have usually prepared to argue with someone, he was completely open and never even approached me from that perspective. My anxiousness and any pending aggravation was wiped clean away, and we just had a total open hearted conversation that answered all of our questions and resolved all of our unsurities. Very wonderful.

Much Love,
Tamara

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Comment by Tamara Rasheed on September 6, 2009 at 7:36pm
Thank you Donna! Every day, I see that coming true. Even my Facebook and CCOR relationships are rich and joyous. I love my comments - they all echo support, love, encouragement and growth. It is so wonderful, and even overwhelming to a point when you realize you have received what you have asked for.

Much Love,
Tamara
Comment by DonnaOnTheBeach on September 6, 2009 at 6:03pm
Hey Tamara - I see you only surrounded by loving, supportive, joyous relationships. that is all I accept for you! Love that your sweetheart is such a sweetheart! xx

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