I have to get A before I can get B.... Is a really simple example of the internal dialogue that occurs when thinking about things I want. For example I need to get £x amount saved before I buy a new dress, or I need to get this lose 30 pounds before I can be happy with myself. Mine has been I need to have £1000 unexpected income to use as spending money on holiday (which I haven't booked yet).
It got me thinking this morning and looking back at some of my best holidays and they were the times where I didn't have near as much as I have now and I had the want for more but didn't stop me enjoying...yes there is more I could have done with more money & time but I can always revisit places and do all the things I felt I missed out on.
For me this revelation is very powerful and I feel that this will help me remove the roadblocks that's I have put in the way when it comes to certain areas in my life