The 100 Day Reality Challenge

Season 2 (summary and looking ahead to Season 3)

Greetings Beloveds,

It took me a good minute to get back on here to summarize my season and take huge deep breathe and revisit some learning. After receiving the scholarship to the writing workshop, I had started writing on a daily basis and was super excited as I thought this is how it's done, finally, I'm on a roll with my writing.. boy was I proven wrong (again,lol) The world famous writers that gave their lectures or talks didn't exactly pan out to be what they had been hyped about, if anything alot of the women in the group were really negative and disappointed in the one writer that I was really hoping to learn a great deal from (Julia Cameron). I actually ended up defending her in a huge long post with nothing but negative comments on her lack of being attentive and sharing information... I quickly realized that i was being judgemental of these ladies and they had the right to feel what they felt, but I too had the right to feel what i felt. I just really admire the woman and didn't want anyone to distort my respect for her. The most simplest and best advice she offered and kept reiterating to everyone that had any issue with writing was "JUST WRITE" and that was it! I mean I can see how others may have expected so much from a woman whose had so much success in her writing career, but at the same time, as I listened to this beautiful being's message, I realized there was nothing more that she could say or share with anyone, because if you want to do something, you just have to do it! right?! makes total sense, when a legend like herself has so many years under her name in helping writers to be writers, there must be something to her simple message! So this season has been about this simple message that I've been working on being more aware of in all facets of my life, which is if you want to do something, you just have to do it! I'm happy to say these are the results of my Season 2:

(1) writing daily

(2) to feel happy, well I decided to be happy

(3) taking steps towards the end results of my goals

(4) started a fb page

(5) attracted a position with a prominent south asian radio station (working out the details this week)

(6) husband working a steady job, thereby alleviating my financial stress (affirmed this daily, and it happened this season where it didn't happen in the past 5-6years)

(7) MY HUSBAND AND I ARE ON HARMONIZING (WORK IN PROGRESS) (AGAIN, HASN'T HAPPENED IN ALL THIS TIME AND THIS IS THE FIRST TIME IN YEARS, THAT WE ARE BEGINNING TO COME BACK TO EACH OTHER) (BIGGEST ACCOMPLISHMENT AND SUCCESS THIS SEASON, MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE)

(8) getting back to being ME *

 

I bet those of you following my journey are really shocked and surprised by #7! Yes, it's the truth, although a constant work in progress. I've gained so much respect for my husband since the past week, I thought we really were done and over with and I was expecting to seperate sometime this year. He just really flipped and did a 180 in life and in our relationship! I credit this to SEEMA PATEL's list making tactic. She had asked me several times to make a list of all the good things about my husband and all the things that I desired in my mate... she said you don't have to see it right now, just make the list and put it away. I did that, not really too gung ho about it, but I really truly believe that that shifted something in my consciousness to be more understanding of him and now it's become a deep sense of respect. We still have our moments where the old habits want to kick in, but he reminds me and i remind him of we really are... well, more on this later perhaps on my jouney in Season 3! Woopie! I will begin Season 3 on August 1st. I think I might even be brave enough to begin VIDEO blogging... lol after all, what was the lesson in season 2? lol JUST DO IT!!! doesn't matter anymore how i look, feel, or sound... if i truly desire to have a presence on camera, then I'm just gonna do it!!! Here's to all of you that are on your journey in whatever Season, remember this is not a dress rehearsal my friends, this is the real deal! These are the Seasons to your own show of life... where you are the writer, director, and actor; "the higher power is the producer"... there are laws that need to obeyed and you shall reap what you sow as long as you're in alignment with those laws!!! WELCOME to another beautiful DAY to be YOU :)

 

Thank you so very much for your support, by reading, commenting and/or liking... YOU have all made a huge contribution in my growth by being here and being YOU! Don't ever forget that YOU matter !!!

 

Thank you for reading :)

 

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