The 100 Day Reality Challenge

I allowed myself to get knocked down from my happy horse again yesterday. My now exbf said some very hurtful things to me...

What I am most shocked about sometimes I really don't think I am vibrating slowly or negatively, yet the trouble comes... it is more like my fears seem to come true. This last relationship has been an unraveling of every situation I had ever hoped not to be in. I feel like a complete idiot sometimes.

However, I have blocked this person out of my life completely and will gladly accept any items he might have of mine as a loss. Now I can go back to focusing on being happy again. loving and respecting myself again and having fun again.

Now that I am at the point of no return with him, I definitely need to focus on some other men. When a thought about this break up or the hurtful revelations he made to me today come to mind, I am going to think right away about what kind of man I do want.!

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Comment by Elaine on September 22, 2010 at 6:34pm
Thank you all so much for your comments. I saw these yesterday at the perfect moment and I was really uplifted by the support.
Comment by Heather Marie on September 22, 2010 at 1:39pm
I see that your intention is to "find blissful happiness and peace in a relationship with an ideal man for me." Keep telling that story and allowing the love to come to your life!!! Keep doing what your doing because there will not be room of negative people, only Pure LOVE and JOY! Love peace and co-creating! Heather
Comment by Shelia Campbell on September 20, 2010 at 7:50pm
Hi Elaine,
Let me tell you this, you are a beautiful lady,and we as women sometimes get into these ralationships, and we tend to lose ourselves. The wrong man will say hurtful things to you and bully you. Because there is something within him that he needs to address, However they focus in on you and say hateful things and they make you feel like it is you. I would suggest to take some time out from having a relationship at this time and focus in on you. Find out who Elaine is, what you like and what you don't like.

Start to treat yourself how you want your mate to treat you. Start to develop a relationship with your self. You spend the most time with you. Get in the habit of doing that. And the next man that comes into your life will come and find you. Everyday get up and say in the mirror you are so beautiful inside and out I love you. Sometimes we as women do not allow ourselves to step back and examine ourselves. I hope that helps you will be OK. Many blessings to you!!!!!!!!!!!
Comment by Elaine on September 20, 2010 at 10:21am
If you have figured it out IntentionCreates, please share. I am ready to leave whatever that is behind
Comment by Madeliene Moore on September 20, 2010 at 7:09am
Elaine you are a beautiful loving person and you will attract the love you want! I so feel your being done with
hurtful bullies! You are progressing on your journey to your best self and abudance! Have a great day!

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